In order for a person to truly care about who you are as a person they must be willing to accept who you are at your heart’s deepest levels. It is easy to love someone that tries to please everyone else, whereas it is much more difficult to love someone who is only his or her self at all times. This in no way should stop anyone from being or acting as themselves because one should only want love or someone to care about them if it is a genuine love.
A love for someone cannot be genuine if a person isn’t really acting as or living as whom they really are deep down. In order to avoid having someone love you for being someone that you aren’t you must be willing to never change yourself. Let someone love you because they are impressed by who you really are as a person, and how you don’t change in order to please others.