What is it that intrigues us..loving someone who you can’t have is the feeling of wanting something you can’t have? The chase fills you with excitement feelings grow for someone and you are unsure of what the feel because if they felt the same they would be chasing you..love is a mystery and unlike any mystery this is one that will stay unsolved..So why is it that we feen for this feeling? A question that couls never be answered just remiain Unsolved who knows where it will lead us
How many times do you need to get hurt for you to know its time to let go.
When we let someone in our lives over and over again, and continue to let them hurt us, and abuse us, we are saying to them that they matter more to us than our self-respect and our dignity, and that if they continue with these types of behaviors that we will continue to let them in our lives. In order to take a stand for ourselves we must be willing to part ways with people with whom we know that we have given a significant amount of chances to.
Though letting go of someone whom we may have a significant amount of love for will cause us a lot of pain, it is very necessary as to provide the best future for ourselves as possible. Choosing to constantly let someone in your life repeatedly hurt you and cause you pain will greatly slow your growth and make it even more challenging in a world that is difficult enough to be successful in.
In order for a person to truly care about who you are as a person they must be willing to accept who you are at your heart’s deepest levels. It is easy to love someone that tries to please everyone else, whereas it is much more difficult to love someone who is only his or her self at all times. This in no way should stop anyone from being or acting as themselves because one should only want love or someone to care about them if it is a genuine love.
A love for someone cannot be genuine if a person isn’t really acting as or living as whom they really are deep down. In order to avoid having someone love you for being someone that you aren’t you must be willing to never change yourself. Let someone love you because they are impressed by who you really are as a person, and how you don’t change in order to please others.